Diary of an Erotic Dancer
Learn to love your body
Katie Simone:- https://bonking.com/Katie-Simone
Even if you’re not confident in your appearance, you can still be aware of your beauty. You don’t have to feel like a model to look great. If you think that you’ll find more confidence by ignoring how you look or hiding yourself away, then this might be helping you build self-confidence.
You are allowed to want to improve your looks. It is also acceptable to prefer one type of face vs. another.
These are things that many people do not accept: skin blemishes, balding, weight fluctuations, etc. But we all have these things about us, so you must try to appreciate them instead of trying to erase them or cover them up.
This way you will develop healthier attitudes towards yourself. Not only will you learn to enjoy what you were born with, but you will also work hard to improve what you were not born with.
If you spend all your time focusing on what you don’t have instead of what you do have, then it will take some getting used to. This may sound simple, but don’ t let anyone tell you that you aren’ t beautiful.
Become a confident woman
Even if you aren’t comfortable with yourself now, it is important to acknowledge and accept your own feelings before acting upon them. Don’t go through life denying that you feel things or putting off who you are because of fear of being judged or misunderstood.
Your dance should be about expressing who you really are through your body, not about trying to act like someone else. What works for one dancer might not work for you, but there are many ways to express yourself.
You can learn new moves, find creative ways to use them, and help others along the way. Another option is to take classes at a studio dedicated to erotic dancing.
There are hundreds of companies that offer lessons to anyone willing to put in effort. You do have something unique to offer even if you don’t think so now.
Finding studios that focus more on teaching students how to better themselves through movement will definitely give you a positive learning experience. Most studios also include sessions with therapists to aid individuals in their recovery from pain disorders or anxiety attacks.
Moving may still be painful after exposure to trauma, but having a therapist by your side can help you cope better.
Learn to be a better partner
Even if you’re not particularly interested in dancing, there are still lots of ways that you can make your partner (s) feel good about themselves. This includes being sexy for them, making love well, and giving yourself as much attention as you give to your partner.
If someone else is doing the work of keeping you feeling bad or taking pleasure in hurting others, try focusing on improving that part of your behavior. Don’t worry about sex itself so much, but focus more on how you respond to it and what feelings come up for you.
You don’t have to stop having fun or enjoying things entirely, just keep them inside and concentrate more on your partner. You can also learn how to appreciate other people more, like your friends and family. Having these conversations will take practice, but they are very helpful for any relationship.
Set personal goals
Even if you’re doing something just for fun, set yourself short-term goals. For example, your first goal might be to try dancing once a week for one month. Your second goal could be to dance every weekend for two months.
Finally, your long-term goal could be to become a professional dancer or perform at a licensed venue.
Following these steps helps you achieve more in your life, especially if you make time to do the same things over and over again. Plus, when you get out of it, you will have many stories to tell!
If you don’t want to write down goals, that’s ok too. You can still accomplish them. If you haven’t yet decided how you want to spend your time, make a plan and watch what happens. This shift in attention away from thinking about tasks outside the domain is helping you realize those other goals.
Make positive memories
Even if you’re only doing this for one night, try to enjoy it. You will have other chances in your life to be happy and sexual, so make sure you take good advantage of these experiences.
Remember that there is no need to live your life through your penis. If you want to enjoy heterosexual sex, just because others are more confident about their ability to perform sexually, that’s okay.
It’s not that they aren’t able to perform, it’s that they choose not to. They may feel embarrassed or worried about losing control- but remember that it’s actually really rare for someone to lose control in bed.
Most men don’t come when they shouldn’t be coming, and they hold back because they fear they “should”. It makes sense now that I think about it – we all know people who can give it to whoever they want, whenever they want, without any condition.
I won’t deny that it feels awesome getting off with someone new and different, but let’s be real, how many times do you get the chance to have crazy hot sex with a stranger in public? Probably never, which is why most men keep themselves locked down.
Don’t go too far! That’s part of the problem. Too many men focus on the fact that she might like them instead of
Learn to be a better dancer
Although it may not seem like dancing is much, if you take time to learn some basic moves, you’ll see for yourself that there’s a whole world of possibility outside of what most people think dancing is. Dancing doesn’t have to be flashy or hard to do; come into your body and focus on staying in position while moving slowly and deliberately.
Practice makes perfect! That goes for both physical dance as well as erotic dance. Each one of us has a way of reaching sexual climax, but we can increase our capacity by practicing the simple dances listed below.
Given that you’re already breathing and shaking when you wake up in the morning (if you aren’t then stop reading right now and just get out of bed), you should be able to reach at least one peak every day of the week. Now let’s talk about how to make this more fun…
Reach out to people
As stated in the diary, erotic dancers are often seen as bad girls. But that’s not true! Being aware of your body and being confident in what you want is very attractive to men and women.
When you know how to be bold and ask for what you want, then others will too. It’s such a turnoff when someone acts all unsure about everything–it makes you feel insecure yourself.
By reaching out to you would show that he wants you and won’t take “no” for an answer. He’s also going to give you his full attention once you become more friends, which can make it difficult to collaborate while finding pleasure in each other’s company.
Reaching out to strangers is cool, but chatting with people who just happen to walk by and have similarities with you is another thing. This is called targeting someone and it’s a pretty great way to get back at psychos who mess with you online.
People don’t like outsiders looking into their life. It breaks their mental balance, and they simply don’t trust anyone else enough to invade their privacy.
Establish routines for yourself
Even if you’re not formally trained, there are still things that you can do to help your erotic dancing business get up and running.
You should establish a routine to organize your workday. This way, you will have time to spend with clients and dance partners, order supplies, plan events and gatherings, and relax.
At the same time, don’t overwork yourselves. People want enough quality time with you so that they can feel like they know you and trust you.
Likewise, be consistent. If you say you’ll meet someone for dinner, try to keep that date. Don’t make them search for you – it is rude.
Also, have a specific method of contacting you mobile device. Make it easy for people to reach you.
Do things that you enjoy
Whether you are an experienced dancer or not, there’s always something new to learn about your body. Most importantly, make moves that feel good for you and take them where they lead you.
The most important thing is to do things that you have a passion for and love doing!
Any move you make needs to come from a place of confidence and optimism. If there’s a chance involved, it isn’t ready for this level of commitment.
You need to feel some kind of way before making a big decision. It doesn’t matter if you decided to try one of these moves at dance class or in the middle of an intense workout session – feeling confident is incredibly important.
Don’t worry about perfectionism – just get up and dance like no one is watching. And remember, when was the last time someone watched you sweat? Good evening 🙂